Я бы express ваш логин c как:
SELECT *
FROM yourTable
WHERE
(
Column_A IN (1310001,1320002,4520004,6170004) AND
Column_B NOT IN (1310001,1320002,4520004,6170004) AND
NOT REGEXP_LIKE(Column_B, '^(12|119|03|02)')
) AND
(
Column_B IN (1310001,1320002,4520004,6170004) AND
Column_A NOT IN (1310001,1320002,4520004,6170004) AND
NOT REGEXP_LIKE(Column_A, '^(12|119|03|02)')
);