Если вы открыты для TVF в качестве вспомогательной функции, которую я использую для расчета истекшего времени, возможно, что-то вроде этого
Пример
Declare @YourTable table (SomeDate datetime)
Insert Into @YourTable values
('2015-05-28 16:10:27'),
('2018-05-25 22:15:18'),
('2018-06-01 16:52:18'),
(dateadd(SECOND,-3,GetDate())),
(GetDate())
Select A.SomeDate
,B.*
,TimeAgo = case when years > 0 then concat(years,' years ago') else
case when months > 0 then concat(months,' months ago') else
case when days > 0 then concat(days,' days ago') else
case when hours > 0 then concat(hours,' hours ago') else
case when minutes > 0 then concat(minutes,' minutes ago') else
case when seconds > 0 then concat(seconds,' seconds ago') else 'just now'
end end end end end end
From @YourTable A
Cross Apply [dbo].[tvf-Date-Elapsed] ( A.SomeDate,GetDate()) B
Возвращает

UDF, если интересно
CREATE FUNCTION [dbo].[tvf-Date-Elapsed] (@D1 DateTime,@D2 DateTime)
Returns Table
Return (
with cteBN(N) as (Select 1 From (Values(1),(1),(1),(1),(1),(1),(1),(1),(1),(1)) N(N)),
cteRN(R) as (Select Row_Number() Over (Order By (Select NULL))-1 From cteBN a,cteBN b,cteBN c),
cteYY(N,D) as (Select Max(R),Max(DateAdd(YY,R,@D1))From cteRN R Where DateAdd(YY,R,@D1)<=@D2),
cteMM(N,D) as (Select Max(R),Max(DateAdd(MM,R,D)) From (Select Top 12 R From cteRN Order By 1) R, cteYY P Where DateAdd(MM,R,D)<=@D2),
cteDD(N,D) as (Select Max(R),Max(DateAdd(DD,R,D)) From (Select Top 31 R From cteRN Order By 1) R, cteMM P Where DateAdd(DD,R,D)<=@D2),
cteHH(N,D) as (Select Max(R),Max(DateAdd(HH,R,D)) From (Select Top 24 R From cteRN Order By 1) R, cteDD P Where DateAdd(HH,R,D)<=@D2),
cteMI(N,D) as (Select Max(R),Max(DateAdd(MI,R,D)) From (Select Top 60 R From cteRN Order By 1) R, cteHH P Where DateAdd(MI,R,D)<=@D2),
cteSS(N,D) as (Select Max(R),Max(DateAdd(SS,R,D)) From (Select Top 60 R From cteRN Order By 1) R, cteMI P Where DateAdd(SS,R,D)<=@D2)
Select [Years] = cteYY.N
,[Months] = cteMM.N
,[Days] = cteDD.N
,[Hours] = cteHH.N
,[Minutes] = cteMI.N
,[Seconds] = cteSS.N
--,[Elapsed] = Format(cteYY.N,'0000')+':'+Format(cteMM.N,'00')+':'+Format(cteDD.N,'00')+' '+Format(cteHH.N,'00')+':'+Format(cteMI.N,'00')+':'+Format(cteSS.N,'00')
From cteYY,cteMM,cteDD,cteHH,cteMI,cteSS
)
--Max 1000 years
--Select * from [dbo].[tvf-Date-Elapsed] ('1991-09-12 21:00:00.000',GetDate())
--Select * from [dbo].[tvf-Date-Elapsed] ('2017-01-01 20:30:15','2018-02-05 22:58:35')