Спасибо, Фрэнсис! Это сделало это для меня, ну, в некоторой степени. Вот мой код, который позволяет шаблону использовать свойство «StrColor» для выбранных и невыбранных элементов списка.
<Style TargetType="ListBoxItem">
<Setter Property="HorizontalContentAlignment" Value="Center"/>
<Setter Property="VerticalContentAlignment" Value="Center"/>
<!--Nice Brush-->
<Setter Property="Background">
<Setter.Value>
<LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,1" StartPoint="0.5,0">
<!-- This is a gradient from white to StrColor and back to white -->
<!--<GradientStop Color="White" Offset="0"/>
<GradientStop Color="{Binding Path=StrColor}" Offset="0.445"/>
<GradientStop Color="White" Offset="1"/>
<GradientStop Color="{Binding Path=StrColor}" Offset="0.53"/>-->
<!-- This is a gradient from StrColor to white -->
<GradientStop Color="{Binding Path=StrColor}" Offset="0"/>
<GradientStop Color="White" Offset="1"/>
</LinearGradientBrush>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
<!--Standard Color-->
<!--<Setter Property="Background" Value="{Binding Path=StrColor}"/>-->
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="{Binding Path=TextColor}"/>
<Setter Property="Height" Value="{Binding Path=Height}"/>
<Setter Property="Margin" Value="0"/>
<Setter Property="Focusable" Value="False"/>
<Setter Property="Template">
<Setter.Value>
<ControlTemplate TargetType="{x:Type ListBoxItem}">
<Border x:Name="Bd" SnapsToDevicePixels="true" Background="{TemplateBinding Background}" BorderBrush="{TemplateBinding BorderBrush}" BorderThickness="{TemplateBinding BorderThickness}" Padding="{TemplateBinding Padding}">
<ContentPresenter HorizontalAlignment="{TemplateBinding HorizontalContentAlignment}" VerticalAlignment="{TemplateBinding VerticalContentAlignment}" SnapsToDevicePixels="{TemplateBinding SnapsToDevicePixels}" x:Name="contentPresenter"/>
</Border>
<ControlTemplate.Triggers>
<Trigger Property="IsSelected" Value="true">
<Setter Property="OpacityMask" TargetName="contentPresenter" Value="{x:Null}"/>
<Setter Property="Background" TargetName="Bd">
<Setter.Value>
<LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,1" StartPoint="0.5,0">
<GradientStop Color="{Binding Path=StrColor}" Offset="0"/>
<GradientStop Color="White" Offset="1"/>
</LinearGradientBrush>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="{Binding Path=TextColor}"/>
</Trigger>
</ControlTemplate.Triggers>
</ControlTemplate>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
</Style>
</UserControl.Resources>