Вы можете получить имя JMenu от JMenuItem, используя этот подход:
JPopupMenu popup = new JPopupMenu();
popup.setName("popup");
JMenu jMenu= new JMenu("menu");
jMenu.setName("menu");
JMenuItem menuItem1 = new JMenuItem("sub1");
jMenu.add(menuItem1);
menuItem1.addActionListener(this);
popup.add(jMenu);
....
@Override
public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent e) {
JMenuItem source = (JMenuItem)(e.getSource());
try{
JMenuItem menuItem = (JMenuItem) e.getSource();
JPopupMenu popupMenu = (JPopupMenu) menuItem.getParent();
Component invoker = popupMenu.getInvoker();
// Print name of JMenu
System.out.println("NAME OF JMENU: "+invoker.getName());
JPopupMenu popup = (JPopupMenu) invoker.getParent();
// Print name of JPopupMenu
System.out.println("NAME OF POPMENU: "+popup.getName());
}catch(Exception ex){
ex.printStackTrace();
}
}