пользователей (UserId, ...)
Подписка (подписчик, издатель)
Дружба (FirstUser, SecondUser)
CREATE TABLE Users (
UserID int not null primary key,
...
)
CREATE TABLE Subscription (
Subscriber int not null references Users(UserID),
Publisher int not null references Users(UserID),
constraint ck_NotEqual check (Subscriber <> Publisher)
)
CREATE TABLE Friendship (
FirstUser int not null references Users(UserID),
SecondUser int not null references Users(UserID),
constraint ck_Order check (FirstUser < SecondUser) -- since friendship is reflective
)