Попробуйте:
SELECT DISTINCT t1.fName,t1.fUID
FROM friends t1, friends t2
WHERE t1.UID=<USER-ID-1>
AND t2.UID=<USER-ID-2>
AND t1.fUID = t2.fUID
AND t1.UID <> t2.UID
Настройка тестовых данных:
CREATE TABLE Friends
(
uID INT,
fuID INT,
fName VARCHAR(20)
)
INSERT INTO Friends
SELECT '1 ',' 2 ','Eduardo'
UNION
SELECT '2 ',' 1 ','Mark'
UNION
SELECT '3 ',' 1 ','Mark'
UNION
SELECT '1 ',' 3 ','Dustin'
SELECT DISTINCT t1.fName,t1.fUID
FROM Friends t1, Friends t2
WHERE t1.UID=2
AND t2.UID=3
AND t1.fUID = t2.fUID