select table1.id,table1.value,table2.id,table2.value
from table1 left join merged on table1.id=merged.tabid1
left join table2 on merged.tabid2=table2.id
union
select table1.id,table1.value,table2.id,table2.value
from table2 left join merged on table2.id=merged.tabid2
left join table1 on merged.tabid1=table1.id ;
или с правым соединением:
SELECT * FROM
table1 LEFT JOIN merged on table1.id=merged.tabid1
LEFT JOIN table2 ON merged.tabid2=table2.id
UNION
SELECT * FROM
table1 RIGHT JOIN merged on table1.id=merged.tabid1
RIGHT JOIN table2 ON merged.tabid2=table2.id WHERE table1.id IS NULL;