Вот как получить среднее значение столбца DateTime в MySql:
create temporary table table_1 (
aDate DateTime
);
insert into table_1 values
('2000-01-01 00:00:00'),
('2010-01-01 00:00:00');
select CAST(avg(aDate) as DateTime) from table_1;
-- Result: "2005-01-01 00:00:00"